{"id":537,"date":"2019-09-18T16:31:54","date_gmt":"2019-09-18T13:31:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/universkop.com\/?p=537"},"modified":"2020-02-06T17:22:42","modified_gmt":"2020-02-06T14:22:42","slug":"akran-zorbaligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/akran-zorbaligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<h3><strong>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong>, \u00e7ocuk ya da ergenlerin ayn\u0131 ya\u015f grubundan ki\u015filere s\u00f6zel, fiziksel ya da davran\u0131\u015fsal \u015fiddet uygulamas\u0131 olarak \u00f6zetleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcniversite s\u0131nav\u0131na haz\u0131rlanan \u00f6\u011frenciler i\u00e7in art\u0131k sanal ortamlarda da akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n etkilerini g\u00f6rebiliyoruz.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Hangi durumlar akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00f6rnektir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fisel alanlar\u0131na m\u00fcdahale etmenin, fiziksel \u00f6zellikleriyle ilgili yorum yapman\u0131n, e\u015fyalar\u0131na zarar vermenin hatal\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funun art\u0131k hepiniz fark\u0131ndas\u0131n\u0131z. Peki daha k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcrekli yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131nda m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanan bir arkada\u015f\u0131na; \u201cbenim konular\u0131m bitti sen daha bitiremedin mi?\u201d, \u201cbu soru senin seviyenin \u00fcst\u00fcnde, sen \u00e7\u00f6zemezsin\u201d ya da \u201csen t\u0131p kazanamazs\u0131n, hedefini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclt\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler kurmak akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 olarak tan\u0131mlanabilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi niyetle de yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa bu t\u00fcr yorumlar s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanman\u0131n gerginli\u011fi ile bo\u011fu\u015fan \u00f6\u011frencilerin psikolojik olarak y\u0131pranmalar\u0131na ve motivasyonlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmesine neden oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Sosyal medyada kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan; \u201cg\u00fcnde 300 soru \u00e7\u00f6zmeden s\u0131nav kazan\u0131lmaz\u201d, \u201cX yay\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeden s\u0131nav kazan\u0131lmaz\u201d ya da \u201cg\u00fcnde 10 saat \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan olmaz\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler de \u00e7o\u011fu \u00f6\u011frenciyi ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde olumsuz etkiliyor.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_584\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-584\" style=\"width: 696px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-584\" src=\"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/akran-zorbaligi.png\" alt=\"akran-zorbaligi\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/akran-zorbaligi.png 696w, https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/akran-zorbaligi-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/akran-zorbaligi-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/akran-zorbaligi-313x209.png 313w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-584\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda neler olup bitti\u011fini bilemezsin ama kendininkini bilirsin.&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3><strong>Arkada\u015flar\u0131ma akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 nas\u0131l anlar\u0131m?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Biri hakk\u0131nda yorum yapmadan ya da tavsiye vermeden \u00f6nce kar\u015f\u0131daki ki\u015finin sizden daha hassas olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek c\u00fcmle kurmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ele\u015ftirilerinizi ki\u015finin eksikliklerini \u00fczerinden de\u011fil, nas\u0131l daha iyi olabilece\u011fi \u00fczerinden yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Yani ele\u015ftirileriniz y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil yap\u0131c\u0131 olmal\u0131. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u201cbu kitab\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zemezsin\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler yerine \u201cX yay\u0131nlar\u0131 senin i\u00e7in daha uygun olabilir\u201d demek daha do\u011fru olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiri yapmak isterken de yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendirmelerde bulunabilirsiniz. Bunu engellemek i\u00e7in ise konu hakk\u0131nda bilginiz yoksa ya da emin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u015fey varsa bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a belirtmelisiniz. Bilginiz yokken fikrinizi s\u00f6ylemek yerine bilmiyorum demek emin olun \u00e7ok daha iyi ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacak.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilirim?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle herkesin karakterinin, \u00f6\u011frenme becerilerinin ve hayat \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131n farkl\u0131 oldu\u011funun kabul etmek gerek.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 yorumlar yapan ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 bir tav\u0131r almak yerine ona neden bu c\u00fcmlelerin rahats\u0131z edici oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Aksi halde iyi niyetli bir yorum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sert bir tepki verdi\u011finiz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki kim olursa olsun s\u00f6ylenen \u015feyi kabul etmeden \u00f6nce sizin i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri ve fikirleri elbette \u00f6nemlidir. Ama yine de bir ele\u015ftiri duydu\u011funuzda moralinizi bozup kenara \u00e7ekilmeyin. Bu fikirlerin olumlu y\u00f6nlerini kendinizi geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in kullanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Unutmay\u0131n, s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanmak herkes i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli a\u00e7\u0131lardan zorluklar bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor. Bunu hem kendiniz hem de arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in daha da zorla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n. Keyifli bir d\u00f6nem ge\u00e7irmeniz dile\u011fiyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedir? Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuk ya da ergenlerin ayn\u0131 ya\u015f grubundan ki\u015filere s\u00f6zel, fiziksel ya da davran\u0131\u015fsal \u015fiddet uygulamas\u0131 olarak \u00f6zetleyebiliriz. \u00dcniversite s\u0131nav\u0131na haz\u0131rlanan \u00f6\u011frenciler i\u00e7in art\u0131k sanal ortamlarda da akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n etkilerini g\u00f6rebiliyoruz. Hangi durumlar akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00f6rnektir? Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fisel alanlar\u0131na m\u00fcdahale etmenin, fiziksel \u00f6zellikleriyle ilgili yorum yapman\u0131n, e\u015fyalar\u0131na zarar vermenin hatal\u0131 bir [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":3496,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[107,106,109],"class_list":["post-537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yks-rehberlik","tag-kocluk","tag-rehberlik","tag-yks-hazirlik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/537"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=537"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/537\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}