{"id":1475,"date":"2019-12-13T14:57:12","date_gmt":"2019-12-13T11:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/?p=1475"},"modified":"2020-02-07T12:44:35","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T09:44:35","slug":"guvenli-iliski-nedir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/guvenli-iliski-nedir\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0131nav Senesinde G\u00f6n\u00fcl \u0130li\u015fkileri: G\u00fcvenli \u0130li\u015fki Nedir?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/universkop.com\/sinav-senesinde-gonul-iliskileri-iliskide-guvenlik-cetveli\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Daha \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131mda<\/a> g\u00fcvensiz ili\u015fkinin fark\u0131nda olman\u0131z i\u00e7in temel kavramlardan bahsetmi\u015ftim. \u015eimdi de g\u00fcvenli ili\u015fkiye bir g\u00f6z atal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<h2>G\u00fcvenli ili\u015fkinin \u00f6zellikleri nelerdir?<\/h2>\n<p>G\u00fcvenli bir ili\u015fkiniz varsa \u015funlar ya\u015fan\u0131r:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Kendi isteklerinin, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n, inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin, be\u011fenilerinin fark\u0131nda olmak ve bunlar\u0131 ifade edebilmek<\/li>\n<li>Zorunluluktan ya da kar\u015f\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiyi memnun etmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, kendin istedi\u011fin i\u00e7in evet diyebilmek<\/li>\n<li>Su\u00e7lu hissetmeden hay\u0131r diyebilmek<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131, fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131daki i\u00e7in duyman\u0131n zor olabilece\u011fi duygular\u0131 ifade ederken kendini\u00a0g\u00fcvende\u00a0hissetmek<\/li>\n<li>Kendini g\u00f6zetmek, kendine vakit ay\u0131rmak<\/li>\n<li>Arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan, hayallerinden, hobilerinden \u00f6d\u00fcn vermek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lmamak<\/li>\n<li>Hissettiklerin ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131n aras\u0131nda uyumsuzluk ya\u015fam\u0131yor olmak<\/li>\n<li>Kendi hedeflerine ula\u015fmada desteklendi\u011fini hissetmek<\/li>\n<li>Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n mutlulu\u011fundan de\u011fil, kendi mutlulu\u011fundan sorumlu olmak<\/li>\n<li>\u0130li\u015fki i\u00e7inde e\u015fit oldu\u011funu hissetmek<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Sahip oldu\u011fumuz fl\u00f6rt haklar\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>G\u00fcvenli bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde iseniz fl\u00f6rt haklar\u0131 konusunda ihlallerin ya\u015fanmamas\u0131 beklenir. Fl\u00f6rt haklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilirseniz ihlal edildi\u011finde bunu fark edersiniz. Fark etmek, sizi \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fc sahibi ve dayan\u0131kl\u0131 yapar. Bunlar\u0131n fark\u0131nda olarak, davran\u0131\u015flar \u015fiddete d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmeden \u00f6nce erken m\u00fcdahale edebilme olana\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olur.<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Fl\u00f6rt Haklar\u0131:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Kiminle fl\u00f6rt edip etmeyece\u011fine kendi karar verme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>E\u015fit olma ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6rme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Kendi bedeni ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 ile ilgili karar verme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Online ve offline mahremiyet hakk\u0131 Kendine ait \u00f6zel alan ve zaman hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan ve hobilerinden \u00f6d\u00fcn vermeme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Hay\u0131r deme hakk\u0131, daha \u00f6nce evet dendiyse bile fikir de\u011fi\u015ftirme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Korku ve bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda hissetmeme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0\u0130htiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda destek isteme hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0\u0130stemedi\u011fi ve g\u00fcvende hissetmedi\u011fi bir ili\u015fkiyi sonland\u0131rma hakk\u0131<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>G\u00f6n\u00fcl ili\u015fkilerinde bilmeniz gereken temel kavramlar i\u00e7in <a href=\"https:\/\/universkop.com\/sinav-senesinde-gonul-iliskileri-temel-kavramlar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">buraya<\/a> t\u0131klay\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><em>Not: Bu yaz\u0131da Gen\u00e7lerle G\u00fcvenli \u0130li\u015fkiler \u00dczerine \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak- E\u011fitimci ve Dan\u0131\u015fmanlar i\u00e7in Uygulama El Kitab\u0131\u2019ndan yararlan\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/em><br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Daha \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131mda g\u00fcvensiz ili\u015fkinin fark\u0131nda olman\u0131z i\u00e7in temel kavramlardan bahsetmi\u015ftim. \u015eimdi de g\u00fcvenli ili\u015fkiye bir g\u00f6z atal\u0131m. G\u00fcvenli ili\u015fkinin \u00f6zellikleri nelerdir? G\u00fcvenli bir ili\u015fkiniz varsa \u015funlar ya\u015fan\u0131r: Kendi isteklerinin, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n, inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin, be\u011fenilerinin fark\u0131nda olmak ve bunlar\u0131 ifade edebilmek Zorunluluktan ya da kar\u015f\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiyi memnun etmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, kendin istedi\u011fin i\u00e7in evet diyebilmek Su\u00e7lu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":224,"featured_media":3570,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[44,178],"class_list":["post-1475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kocluk","tag-ana-sayfa","tag-gonul-iliskileri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1475"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/224"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1475"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1475\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}