{"id":1238,"date":"2019-11-16T14:40:27","date_gmt":"2019-11-16T11:40:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/?p=1238"},"modified":"2020-02-07T12:04:23","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T09:04:23","slug":"sinav-senesinde-gonul-iliskileri-iliskide-guvenlik-cetveli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/sinav-senesinde-gonul-iliskileri-iliskide-guvenlik-cetveli\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0131nav Senesinde G\u00f6n\u00fcl \u0130li\u015fkileri: \u0130li\u015fkide G\u00fcvenlik Cetveli"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n

\u0130li\u015fkiler partnerlerin birbirlerine nas\u0131l davrand\u0131klar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak; g\u00fcvenli<\/strong> ile \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren<\/strong> aras\u0131 bir \u00f6l\u00e7ekte de\u011fi\u015fkenlik g\u00f6sterebilir. Kimi zaman hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fcvenli olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p zarar verici ya da \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren bir a\u015famaya ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmek ve ifade etmek kolay olmayabilir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da g\u00f6rece\u011finiz “ili\u015fkide g\u00fcvenlik cetveli”; bu a\u015famalar\u0131 fark edebilmek ve hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kabul edilemez oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rebilmek konusunda size yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n

\u0130li\u015fkide G\u00fcvenlik Cetveli<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\n
\u015e\u0130DDET \u0130\u00c7EREN<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n
Kontrol var, sevgi yok, zarar veren ileti\u015fim, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, su\u00e7lama,
\nyaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131rma, onay d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve zorlama i\u00e7eren davran\u0131\u015flar<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Kararlar\u0131 tek ki\u015finin verdi\u011fi ili\u015fkilerdir. Partnerlerden biri t\u00fcm s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 belirler, di\u011feri i\u00e7in neyin iyi oldu\u011funa ve ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine karar verir. \u0130li\u015fki hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak neredeyse imkans\u0131zd\u0131r. Onay d\u0131\u015f\u0131 cinsel ve sosyal davran\u0131\u015flar ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n\n\n\n\n\n
G\u00dcVENS\u0130Z<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n
Bask\u0131 var, e\u015fitlik yok, ileti\u015fim sorunu, g\u00fcvensizlik, yalan, e\u015fitsizlik, kararlar konusunda bask\u0131<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Karar alma konusunda partnerlerden birinin di\u011ferini -ya da partnerlerin birbirlerini-zorlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, cinsel davran\u0131\u015flarla ilgili bask\u0131n\u0131n var oldu\u011fu ili\u015fkilerdir. Zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 birlikte ge\u00e7irmelerine ra\u011fmen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, duygular\u0131 ve problemleri hakk\u0131nda birbirleriyle konu\u015famazlar.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n\n\n\n\n\n
G\u00dcVENL\u0130<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n
Sayg\u0131 var, k\u0131s\u0131tlama yok, a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim, g\u00fcven, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, e\u015fitlik, ki\u015fisel zaman, ortak karar ve onay<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Kararlar\u0131n ortak al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131, partnerlerin ili\u015fkiyi ilgilendiren konularla ve cinsel
\ndavran\u0131\u015flarla ilgili duygular\u0131n\u0131 birbirleriyle rahatl\u0131kla payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131
\nili\u015fkilerdir. Birlikte e\u011flenceli zaman ge\u00e7irirler; fakat bu kendi
\narkada\u015flar\u0131yla ve yaln\u0131z zaman ge\u00e7irmelerine engel olmaz.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Bu yaz\u0131da Gen\u00e7lerle G\u00fcvenli \u0130li\u015fkiler \u00dczerine \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak- E\u011fitimci ve Dan\u0131\u015fmanlar i\u00e7in Uygulama El Kitab\u0131\u2019ndan yararlan\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

S\u0131nav senesinde g\u00f6n\u00fcl ili\u015fkileri yaz\u0131 dizisinin ilkine ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n\u0131z<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0130li\u015fkiler partnerlerin birbirlerine nas\u0131l davrand\u0131klar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak; g\u00fcvenli ile \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren aras\u0131 bir \u00f6l\u00e7ekte de\u011fi\u015fkenlik g\u00f6sterebilir. Kimi zaman hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fcvenli olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p zarar verici ya da \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren bir a\u015famaya ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmek ve ifade etmek kolay olmayabilir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da g\u00f6rece\u011finiz “ili\u015fkide g\u00fcvenlik cetveli”; bu a\u015famalar\u0131 fark edebilmek ve hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kabul edilemez oldu\u011funu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":224,"featured_media":3556,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[22],"tags":[44,178],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1238"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/224"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1238\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/universkop.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}